This is My Space

I love having a blog, because it's my own personal little piece of the internet, that very few people ever visit; as such, I feel secure in venting here. And I have done so off and on since I first got this blog spot.
 My blog spot is not like Facebook; it's not a social network, where everyone I know has access to what I say, and where I have to monitor what I say because it is a social network. But here, I have free reign. I can talk about anything I want; I can talk about anything that bothers me, or creates stress in my life. In my psych class, we're learning about "the talking cure" regarding stress, mental illness, neurosis, etc,. It HELPS to vent. But a wise person will not post vents on networking sites where they can be taken offensively.
 There's a person whose blogs I've followed for a while; shes a really interesting person, and she always has cool things to talk about in her blogs; recently, a girl we both know has started showing how big of an immature, inconsiderate little prick she is; this person wrote a few blogs, did a little venting, but never mentioned the name of the girl, or really vented specifically about her, more so about situations. From what I could gather, this little girl, and I use that term because she is emotionally little and immature, has accused the a fore mentioned blogger of bullying her; something was clearly said to the blogger I follow, because not only did she clean out almost a month's worth of blogs (all which contained the vents regarding the situations with this little girl) but she also deleted her Facebook, which she had created for her own personal use to stay connected with her friends. Now, I understand she wants to give no more fuel to this little girls fire; and I understand the wisdom in saying nothing rather than stooping to another's level of behavior; but I think it is ridiculous that this little girl thinks she can just push people around and make wild, false accusations, just to get her way because she doesn't like when someone calls her out on who she really is. THAT is an unheard of level of childish behavior.

This girl, who has never lived on her own, never supported herself without help, who has taken advantage of every poor soul who ever cared about her, who is lazy and inconsiderate,  who has admitted to using people, especially men, to get what she wants just because she can, who claims to be mature beyond her twenty years, who lives vicariously through others, and has told me in person she is dependent, and cannot be without a man.....this girl needs a serious wake up call.
This girl needs to realize she doesn't even compare to the friends she pushed away. She is not the greatest thing in the world; nor is she the victim of truly tragic circumstances.

And, most of all, she needs to realize how truly pathetic she comes across. I really feel sorry for her. And, in the same coin, I don't. If she's a victim, it is of her own perception. Her life will never improve until she discovers her own self-identity, until she comes face to face with her own flaws and decides to work on them; she will never have greater life satisfaction until she stops playing the victim or martyr every time something happens that is not according to her plans.

And she needs to get it through her fat head that people have a right to vent about things that bother them. If she doesn't want to feel she's the cause, she needs to stop becoming the cause.

BAM. Yeah, I just wrote all that. Who's gonna stop me? The blog police? =P Good night, blog world.