Honesty

I need to get some stuff out in the (virtual) air. I need it out of my mind and off my chest.

 For starters, who in their right mind would think to marry someone they'd been dating barely five months? Let's say that hypothetically the relationship was progressing wonderfully without any hitches so far; would you really feel that marriage was the best route to go ahead and take? But let's say it was your first serious relationship after being *divorced.* Still think it's a great idea? Then excuse me for thinking you an idiot. Yeah, I'm talking about someone specific. My ex is engaged. To a girl he's dated for five months. Who he caught cheating on him a couple months ago. This girl, fyi, is still continuing to cheat on him. Who he fights with off and on. OH, and the topper? She's 17. Yup. I think he's lost his wits.
  Good grief, how dense can some people be??? He's gone so far down hill so fast, I can't help but be irritated with him. He knows better than all this garbage he's doing and saying. And this little girl, this child that he thinks is ready to commit, thinks he's cheating on her with *me* of all people??? How retarded. She's a dumb little girl with a lot of growing up to do. And he is a fool who should have done his growing up after we divorced.

I have never been more thankful for a relationship ending. There is nothing, in retrospect, that would have made staying with him worth it.

And he doesn't believe in God now either???? The guy who was raised in church and completely dedicated to bringing people to God? Wow. I've read some of the things he's written lately; he's completely sold out. He is such a child he couldn't hold on to his own personal beliefs all on his own. What a brat, what an absolute moron. Best of luck to you and that pitiful child you claim to love, Aaryn. You're going to need some serious luck to make anything come of THAT train wreck.